It’s a thrilling feeling to tap into that creative energy, the kind that ignites the writer within me and compels me to share my thoughts 😊. Before diving into today’s story, I want to extend my heartfelt thanks to all of you who took the time to comment—whether here or in person. Your feedback means the world to me, and yes, some sense has indeed been knocked into my head. I love you all; you’re the reason I keep writing! ❣️
After navigating a few romantic relationships that ultimately didn’t pan out, I found myself reflecting on the patterns I keep repeating. What is it that I need to break free from? Insight after insight has been bubbling up, and with a little divine help, I’ve started to make sense of it all.
Last night, I struck up a conversation with my good friend Pastor Casper and posed the question that’s been on my mind: “How do I know a man truly loves me?” He replied with a question of his own, “How old is the guy?” I shared the background of someone who has caught my attention: “42, a divorcee with two kids…”
“What happened in his previous relationship?” he probed.
“He said their priorities no longer aligned, so they parted ways four years ago. They’re both moving on with their lives.”
“Ooh, I see. I ask because I’ve heard stories of divorcees going back to their exes when things get tough…”
His words struck a chord, sending me into deep contemplation. I’ve tried dating single guys before, only to be met with the excuse, “What if your baby dad comes back?”
No matter how many times I explained that we both agreed to love each other from a distance—co-parenting but not rekindling—I was left heartbroken. It made me wonder: how much does our past hinder our ability to embrace the present and future?
Sure, some people reunite with their first loves, but others are ready to start fresh. I told my beloved friend that I’m choosing to leave the past behind and allow myself to explore this new connection. He seems to check all my boxes, and while nothing is set in stone yet, I’m seriously considering giving it a shot! 😀
So, dear Readers, keep me in your prayers as I navigate this journey toward what I hope will be my happily ever after. And, of course, how do I truly know he is the one?
Tales Of Tabitha 